The Listener Blue Print. Part 1 of 3.

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David,

The 3rd paragraph from the end (the one that starts with "Decoding can be affected by tone...") reminds me of a talk I had with a guy for whom English is his second language. In our conversation, he was speaking English, but because his placement of accent, pitch contour, and frequency/timing of each segment of his words were much different than what I'm accustomed to hearing, I had TREMENDOUS difficulty understanding him. I had never thought about why it is sometimes difficult to understand someone that has an "accent" different from those I'm used to hearing. However, this post makes it clear why this is the case.

Darryl Pace

David,

Thank you for addressing phonemes as the basic/smallest unit of speech. The children who have some of the most difficulty learning to read are those who cannot break apart and manipulate the phonemes in words orally. Those children would hear "key" as one sound. Auditory processing issues are so often overlooked but can lead to dramatic challenges with reading later on. I'm looking forward to part two.

Jennifer Skinner

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Sounds like you might have been speaking to an American Darryl ;-)

I find learning how the brain is processing things very revealing... thanks.

Philip Graves [Consumer Behaviour Expert]

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OMG, YES! indeed, and this is something which singles dating need to seriously consider. I think it also affects how ATTRACTIVE we find the other person, can we understand them. well for single women at least because we are aroused and baited aurally by a man's words and actions to us.

GREAT communication from The Communication Expert himself!

All the best,

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This is a strong lesson in communication. It shows that there is a mechanical structure behind hearing...and I would guess learning...which if confusing...would also interfere with some of your Intuitive Abilities being brought to the front when useful.

Thanks,

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Hey Darryl,

Thanks for the comment. Yes, the "prosodic" structure that I talk about is a very heavy component in how we decipher what is being said. "oddities" in it will greatly impact our ability to understand people...

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Hi Jennifer,

Thanks for the comment. They actually have linked dyslexia to that as well (the inability to process particular phonemes)...

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Hey Darryl, if we meet one day you might have trouble understanding my english :-)

When I just came to England I couldn't understand english people (who were born there).The sentence seemed to me like one unknown word. They talked to fast for me to understand. When I asked them to speak a bit slower I could understand. It seems like my ear wasn't trained enough to catch on such a fast talk.

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David,
I never really thought about how the process works. thanks for the communication education.

Scott Bell

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David: Your post is JIT (Just In Time) for my use. BIG Thanks you!

Lena: I will record your reading S-L-O-W-L-Y as I am a natural fast speaker.

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